Family Mediation
Though family conflicts are commonplace, finding simple and efficient ways to resolve the conflicts may be challenging especially in households where the conflict extends to other members of the family. More often than not conflict can bring about heightened emotions and having the assistance of an impartial third party who can manage the proceedings and guide to two sides to a mutually acceptable settlement in a confidential and non adversarial environment may assist in repairing problematic relationships and possibly making future communications more accessible.
Before embarking on mediation, it is important to fully understand the role of the mediator together with the mediation process in order to evaluate if this particular Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) is the correct one for your specific kind of family conflict.
Family Mediation Overview
Family mediation is best described as an ADR technique which resolves problems among members of the family. The mediation process makes it possible for both the disputing sides to work together to find a resolution to their discord by way of communication in a closed and confidential setting without having to face a judge. The role of the mediator is to aid the disputants in finding a creative solution to their problem which they are both willing to agree upon. The mediator cannot at any time enforce their own opinion on the proceedings and cannot take sides, but works to aid both sides to find a resolution of their own.? This resolution must be mutually amiable and where required the mediator will help with legal clarification, should the need present itself.
Exactly What Does Family Mediation Cover?
There are a wide range of different conflict issues that can benefit from mediation including such challenges as pre and post separation and divorce issues such as child custody, visitation rights and asset distribution. Family conflicts that derive from financial disputes may also be dealt with effectively through mediation.? In instances such as inheritance disputes and elder health care expenses or less evident, but equally emotional decisions, such as pet allocation along with the redistribution of furniture and other possessions is often best dealt with outside of the legal courts in a confidential setting.
How Long do Mediations Typically Last?
The time spent in mediation is entirely dependent upon the advances made by the disputants in settling the conflict. Initial mediations may often take between two and four hours and at this time the mediator may decide on whether to call an end to the session or to proceed. If a resolution appears to be imminent, then the mediator will inevitably prefer to continue in order to find a resolution during the primary sitting. On occasions in which no resolution is within reach, extra mediation sessions might be scheduled. If no resolution appears to be attainable, the mediator may advocate other ADR procedures which may be more appropriate for the specifics of this unique conflict.